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Blowjob Bliss: Tips and Techniques for Maximum Pleasure

Updated: Aug 31, 2023


Today we're diving deep into the art of giving mind-blowing blowjobs. Get ready to unlock the secrets to oral pleasure and take your skills to new heights because I’m sharing with you my favorite tips for blowjob bliss. Lets get balls deep into this

Before we get into everything, I want to point out that not all people with penises enjoy blowjobs. Some don’t enjoy the sensation, some feel like too much spotlight is put on them, other’s might feel insecure of their penis and those with different gender identities might feel uncomfortable by putting attention on a part of their body that makes them feel dysphoric. So before you waste time putting in all sorts of work on that pole, find out if your partner even enjoys them to begin with.

That said, for many people with penises, blowjobs can bring immense pleasure and can also be extremely exciting for the giving partner. But how do you go about upping your Bj game?


First off, I think it’s important to know why people love blowjobs.

One reason is that It’s a completely different sensation than a vagina or anus. A blowjob creates a mix of sensations from the lips, mouth, throat, tongue, hands and in some cases teeth that create an unpredictable experience.


Other’s get off to the thought of fucking a pretty face, or enjoy watching their partner with their penis in their mouth like a real life POV porn.

some like a break from the pressure to perform and like to sit back and and let the pleasure come to them.

The easiness of a blowjob compared to a full on fuck fest is another appeal ,

Some feel that receiving a blowjob shows their partner’s devotion, and enjoy the sense of dominance and importance they get as their partner submits and worships their hard, throbbing cock with their eager mouth.


Blow jobs are also versatile in that they can be both the main course and an appetizer. But how does one execute an award winning blow job? Well my little naughties, it all starts with communication.


Communication and genuine curiosity are the foundation of mind-blowing oral experiences. That’s why I have questions in my book Naughtylicious a sex conversation game for daring adults, like “do you enjoy eye contact during oral” “what do you like best about receiving oral?” “Describe how someone can give you the best oral sex”.


So my first tip is to Learn what excites them, what techniques they enjoy, and any specific preferences they may have. Talking about it can be foreplay all on its own. Just imagine, you and your partner enjoying a glass of wine, talking about how they like to be serviced, I’m turned on just thinking about it.

Things you definitely want to know include if they enjoy eye contact.

Eye contact can be extremely hot for some and extremely uncomfortable for others.


Do they like to climax from oral, or do they want to use it as foreplay.


Do they enjoy slow and steady, fast with lots of suction, or a combination.


Are they into a casual blow job, or are they fans of sloppy blow jobs?

For those who don’t know, sloppy blow jobs are exactly what they sound like, a wet, messy, exaggerated blowjob with lots of spit, lots of motion and lots of theatrics.


Do they like to to sit back and relax, or are they the type who take charge. Knowing this will really help you know what to expect. If you are thinking you are going to take your time slurping that dick and they suddenly start to grab your head and fuck your mouth, it can really throw you off.

Also, If they like to take charge, how aggressive do they like to be. Is it just a regular thrust, or a full on savage face fuck. Use all of this information, not only to figure out how to give your partner a fully customized amazing blow job, but to help you figure out your boundaries and work arounds. For example If you don’t feel comfortable with a savage facefuck, you can let them know that is not something that you are ok with before they suddenly start railing your precious face. A workaround could be exaggeration, bring your inner Meryl Streep out and make all sorts of dramatic gagging sounds with extra drool to make it seem more aggressive than it really seems. Your partner will not know the difference, will still feel in control but you will feel a lot more comfortable.


My next tip is to think about what you want to do with the semen before you get to work. That way you can communicate that with your partners and avoid any unpleasant surprises. Do you want to spit, swallow, have them finish on your face, chest or other body parts? Maybe you want to kick things up a notch and share the reward with your partner with a cum filled make out sesh. Make sure that’s something they are into before you do of course.


Next, remember that anticipation goes a long way. The art of seduction begins long before your lips meet their juicy meat. Set the stage by building anticipation. Start with gentle kisses, around the genital area and inner thighs, using your hands to caress and tease. This will Create a sense of longing and desire that will make their toes curl in anticipation. When you are ready to get closer to the cock start by kissing the base of the shaft and working your way to wards the head. Next bring your tongue into the mix sliding it from the tip of their head back down to the shaft and lick around the cock as if you were drawing ribbons with your tongue. If they have foreskin, now would be the time for a playful nibble of the foreskin. If precum starts dribbling out of them, you know you have reached the pinnacle of anticipation. Keep in mind that not everyone will precum, so if you feel you are ready to finally gobble that dick down then you are ready. Start by slowly putting the penis in your mouth and work your down as much as you are comfortable. Once you have reached that point, close your mouth, embracing their rock hard cock with your warm, wet, willing mouth and suck.


Now here is my most important tip: be as enthusiastic as possible, or fake it till you make it. Enthusiasm can easily overcome poor or unexperienced technique.

The more over the top, the better. Do what you need to do to get you in the mood to suck that dick like your life depends on it. Tell yourself what a great cocksucker you are, or maybe what a dirty little cock sucking whore you are, whatever will lift your dick sucking spirit. Use flavored lubes if you think it will help you go all out.

Now, let's talk technique. The key is to vary your moves and find what drives your partner wild. Experiment with different strokes, speeds, and pressures to discover their sweet spots. Pay attention to their responses, as each individual has unique preferences. Use your tongue, lips, and even light suction to create a symphony of pleasure. Twirl your tongue around their dick as you also twirl your mouth up and down that scrumptious cock, bring your hand into the mix to provide multidimensional pleasure. Pay attention to their reactions and adjust your technique accordingly. Use your hand whenever your mouth feels tired, or let them help by face fucking you.

If they are into it, look up at them and lock eyes with them so they can see that pretty face of your with your lips wrapped around their cock.

Make some moaning and gagging sounds to let them know how powerful their tool is. This can be a huge ego boost .

Get verbal, let them know how delicious they taste, how big they are, how much you love sucking their cock. Engage them by asking them how they like it, if they want it faster, slower,

sloppier.

Do not forget the balls, fondle, lick and suck them . If they are into it, slip a finger or toy up their anus for added pleasure. The g spot in people with penises can be stimulated through anal penetration, which will add to the pleasure and intensity of their orgasm.

Consider adding more visual stimulation. If you are on your knees, touch your breasts, stroke, or finger yourself so they get a bigger show. Suck them in front of the mirror on all fours so they can see your naughty bits .

Pair the blowjob with some sensation play, you can use this as foreplay to the blowjob, or whenever you need a break. Blindfold them, Run a feather, ice cube, flogger, or whatever you want over their body. Bite a strawberry and give them a big juicy kiss. Play some over the top porn for added visuals or sounds.

Use a cock ring to make that dick extra hard and juicy, although keep in mind that it might make them last longer which could be good or bad.


A penis pump can also help elevate the sensations for you and them and make things more playful. So Pump that penis up and experience an enhanced, extra juicy version of your partner.

Consider making the blow job as part of a happy ending. Give your partner an erotic massage, oil them up , straddle them and rub them up and down. You can add more excitement by brushing your genitals or breasts over them as you massage before you blow them away with a happy ending.

switch up locations or give surprise blowjobs. Ask them to pull over the side of the road so you can milk them , or let


them keep driving. Sneak off somewhere you might get caught for an added rush.


Lat but not least, have fun! The more fun you have, the more pleasure you both will have, and pleasure yourself while pleasuring them. Challenge yourself to time your orgasm to theirs and cum as they are jizzing in or on you.


Stay Naughty!


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